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A Pollinator Garden: Putting In Flowers and Hoping for the Birds, the Bees and the Beetles

May 14, 2022 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 12 Comments

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Plants for the side and back yards arrived yesterday and overnighted on the newly built landing alongside our house. Photos by Barbara Newhall

I want flowers. I just do. I want the crazy daisies. I want the seaside fleabane. I want the tiny manzanita bells. I want the funky kangaroo paws and the faithful, ever-returning salvia. I want some of those outrageously pop-eyed cone flowers. I want them all, native and not. And, yes, I want the birds, the bees and the beetles they attract. I want my yard to be a year-round spectacle of flowering plants and the critters who depend on them. I want a pollinator garden.

And that’s what arrived at my house yesterday. Plants with names you could eat for lunch: Convolvuous maritanicus. Campanula muralis. Aqueligia. Ficus repens. And that cut-flower favorite, Alstromeria.

A Pet — Or a Pollinator Garden?

Some of my newly widowed acquaintances suggest I get a dog. Others say cat. Dog, cat — get yourself something that needs nurturing, they tell me. It’ll do you good.

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Among the new arrivals — Kangaroo paw (Anigozanthos ‘Bush Pearl’). Note to self: take a minute from time to time to sit down with this plant and just look.

But for me, it’s the green and growing things that bring out the urge to nurture — that distract me from that big empty spot in my days.

Plants amaze me. There they are, out in the dirt and the rain, day and night, turning muck and mud into petioles and venules. Into things living, breathing and spectacular. Into places where a ladybug or a soldier beetle might land and feel itself at home.

More insects at “A Checkerspot Butterfly in Marin — And Other Insects I Have Known and (Tried to) Love.”  More  flora at “Beauty Is in the Eye of the Beholder — But What If There’s No Beholder?”

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Three kinds of Heuchera — coral bells — will add color to the new garden even when the delicate blossoms are done for the season. (Left to right, H. ‘Fire Alarm,’ H. ‘Forever Purple,’ H. Villosa Citronella.’)
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A California native, seaside fleabane (Erigeron glaucus), attracts butterflies, including the Northern Checkerspot.
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For the pollinator garden: This drought tolerant manzanita (Arctostapholos ‘Point Reyes’) is a buzz pollinator dependent on native California bees. It was a birthday gift from a neighbor and it will go into the backyard, where the neighbors can see it from their deck. The plant ID stakes — also a birthday gift. Photos by Barbara Newhall

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  1. Emily Newhall says

    May 17, 2022 at 7:58 am

    That heuchera is stunning! I’m looking forward to seeing them all planted.

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    • Barbara Falconer Newhall says

      May 18, 2022 at 1:03 pm

      The heuchera are pretty cool. And I finally learned how to pronounce that word. It’s HOO-ker-uh. Who knew?

      Reply
  2. The Rev. Jim Seipel says

    May 16, 2022 at 10:02 am

    Loved the PICTURES of all the flowers. Are those pics of what you already have….or pictures of what you are hoping it will be like once all the stuff that was delivered gets in the ground!??? ….We have a patio that is absolutely PACKED with plants….if you want to sit down, you have to bring a chair because all the flat surfaces are filled. I am sure my wife would be 1000% in agreement with this plan of yours!! God Bless!!

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    • Barbara Falconer Newhall says

      May 18, 2022 at 1:01 pm

      I took those pictures of the actual plants as they waited to be planted. Now they are in the ground and I owe you all some pictures of the results.

      Reply
  3. Lindsey says

    May 15, 2022 at 4:35 pm

    Your plants look fantastic. I just ordered some seeds — herbs, leafy greens, and shamrocks — to sow with my little daughter. Garden education! You’re very wise to select plants to nurture, not an animal. Our pets are great but require so much care, and really limit the ability to travel freely.

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    • Barbara Falconer Newhall says

      May 18, 2022 at 1:00 pm

      A little daughter! Now that would bring out the nurturer in me… Hmmm. Actually, my big daughter does, too.

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  4. Nancy+Sanders says

    May 15, 2022 at 12:09 pm

    Spring brings out the green thumb and my tomato plant has two little globes growing. It still hurts so much daily but the planting helps. Others have recommended pets as well, but I’m not ready to commit to 12+ years to caring for a pet. Not yet anyway… Thanks for beautiful pictures of your flowers.

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    • Barbara Falconer Newhall says

      May 18, 2022 at 12:57 pm

      Cats don’t need to be walked, and they are cuddly. But still, you can’t leave them for an extended time if you want to take a trip. Plants, with their little sprouts and buds, work for me, too.

      Reply
  5. jan says

    May 15, 2022 at 7:59 am

    Me too, Barbara, flowers are my favorite pets!

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    • Barbara Falconer Newhall says

      May 15, 2022 at 8:51 am

      Love it!

      Reply
  6. Elaine says

    May 14, 2022 at 5:14 pm

    Beautiful, there will be so much year round activity.

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    • Barbara Falconer Newhall says

      May 14, 2022 at 6:42 pm

      We’ll see! That’s what Bryn the gardener tells me.

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