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About Barbara
I’m Barbara Falconer Newhall and I’ve got a serious case of the human condition.
I’ve done it all: career, family, house, garden, and a prize-winning book, "Wrestling with God." The result: I'm a woman of years, lots of them, who can't help seeing things from the funny side.
Tucked away on this website are hundreds of riffs on life. I hope you’ll seek them out – and keep me company as I discover the humor, if not the meaning, in what life throws my way. Learn More
THE LATEST
Widowed: My Husband’s Stuff Is Still Here. I’ve Got My Reasons
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 2 Comments
Marriage is mostly about presence, about being there. Jon’s not here anymore. But his belongings are. Read more.
BARBARA’S BOOK
★ Publishers Weekly, starred review
Any seeker of any faith will be blessed to read the words of this fine author and observer. Read more.
An inveterate doubter for most of her adult life, journalist Barbara Falconer Newhall embarks upon a quest to find a way to believe in God in the twenty-first century.
The result is Wrestling with God: Stories of Doubt and Faith, which details her search for the Divine in the lives of diverse Americans – from a fundamentalist Christian to a progressive Muslim to a Buddhist monk.Seekers of all persuasions will feel represented here, from priests, ministers, and rabbis to engineers, physicists, and avowed non-believers . . . a riverflow of a book. — Phil Cousineau, host of PBS’s Global Spirit
Recent Riffs on Life
Huston Smith on the Most Important Thing You Can Do in 2025
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 2 Comments
After nearly a century devoted to the study of life and truth and the meaning of it all, religion scholar Huston Smith had some advice for his fans. Read more.
The Art of Rhetoric — If a Two-Year-Old Can Master It, So Can You
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 2 Comments
Even my toddler knew how to ply the art of rhetoric. It’s something we humans use every day, on each other, starting at an early age. Read more.
DON’T MISS!
The Lost Art of the Telephone Conversation — Here’s What Happened to It. Sheltering at Home Week 14
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 2 Comments
I know why young people do all that texting. It’s because 21st-century wireless phones make for a lousy telephone conversation, and kids want to — talk. Read more.
Dying. It’s What We Do These Days
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 12 Comments
I see that it’s not going to let up, this dying thing. I’m 80 years old now. I’m getting older and so are all my friends. Read more.
My First Royalty Check Has Arrived — How Cool Is That?
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 9 Comments
Hey! Hey! My very first royalty check has arrived. It’s not big bucks, but it’s real. Read more.