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About Barbara

Barbara Falconer Newhall at her home office desk getting ready to do final edits on her book, "Wrestling with God." Photo by Barbara Newhall

I’m Barbara Falconer Newhall and I’ve got a serious case of the human condition.

I’ve done it all: career, family, house, garden, and a prize-winning book, "Wrestling with God." The result: I'm a woman of years, lots of them, who can't help seeing things from the funny side.

Tucked away on this website are hundreds of riffs on life. I hope you’ll seek them out – and keep me company as I discover the humor, if not the meaning, in what life throws my way. Learn More

THE LATEST

The Trouble With Poinsettias

By Barbara Falconer Newhall 10 Comments

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The trouble with poinsettias is — they don’t know that Christmas is over and it’s time to make an exit.  Read more.

BARBARA’S BOOK

★ Publishers Weekly, starred review
Any seeker of any faith will be blessed to read the words of this fine author and observer. Read more.
"Wrestling with God: Stories of Doubt and Faith" book cover with photo of author Barbara Falconer Newhall

An inveterate doubter for most of her adult life, journalist Barbara Falconer Newhall embarks upon a quest to find a way to believe in God in the twenty-first century.

The result is Wrestling with God: Stories of Doubt and Faith, which details her search for the Divine in the lives of diverse Americans – from a fundamentalist Christian to a progressive Muslim to a Buddhist monk.


Seekers of all persuasions will feel represented here, from priests, ministers, and rabbis to engineers, physicists, and avowed non-believers . . . a riverflow of a book. — Phil Cousineau, host of PBS’s Global Spirit

Click to learn more about "Wrestling with God"

Recent Riffs on Life

Widowed: If I Visit His Grave, Will It Help?

By Barbara Falconer Newhall 10 Comments

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I said hello to Jon and his family, and then there was nothing more to do in this graveyard.  Read more.

Maybe I Want a Facelift After All

By Barbara Falconer Newhall 12 Comments

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Facelifts that leave your cheeks looking like you’re facing into 100-mph headwinds are not for me. Or are they?  Read more.

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Amazing Clay — More Wonderful Stuff from the Berkeley Art Center Show

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Massive ceramic figure by Wanxin Zhang, "God Bless You." Photo by BF Newhall

Some more wonderful stuff made of clay by three artists featured in the show, "Local Treasures: Bay Area Ceramics," at the Berkeley Art Center through Nov. 18 — Wanxin Zhang, Ted Fullwood and Clayton Bailey. Read more.

This Scary Week I’m Writing About Camellias. Here’s Why

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

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I didn’t want to write about that man. I wanted him out of my life and my psyche. Then he did what he did this scary week.  Read more.

Widowed: My Husband Is Missing Out — On the Sight of Two Galaxies Dancing in Space

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

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I’ve been widowed three years. My husband has missed out on a lot in that time, including a parade of images from the Webb Space Telescope. Read more.

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ON THE FUNNY SIDE

My Killer Shoes — Brought Down to Size by Those Four-and-a-Half-Inch Heels

Barbara Falconer Newhall tries on a pair of Glint pave shoes with 4 1/2-inch high heels. BF Newhall photo

Dress shoes for women right now, as you may have noticed, sport heels that go on forever. Wedge heels, spike heels, stack heels – everywhere I look I see nothing but heels of skyscraper proportions built to lift their wearers four or even four-and-a-half inches off the ground. Read More.

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DON’T MISS!

before her son in hospital with appendicitis. Barbara Falconer Newhall's son gestures expansively before the appendicitis attack. Photo by Barbara Newhall

My Son Is in the Hospital With Appendicitis 2,000 Miles Away. How Do I Mother Him From Here?

A three-by-five card with a teenager's promise to do work for her mother; it's a gift coupon. Photo by BF Newhall.

A Forgotten Gift From My Teenaged Daughter — No Good After December 31

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A Leap Year Leap: She Asked. He Said Yes.

Tinka Falconer at Pentwater, Michigan, 1982. Photo by BF Newhall

Why I Can’t Write My Memoir — Not the Part About My Mom Anyway

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