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Veteran journalist Barbara Falconer Newhall riffs on life as she knows it.

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Jon died unexpectedly at the age of 79. I thought we'd have many more years together. We won't.

Widowed: The Perfect Husband. The Perfect Christmas Tree

December 15, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 2 Comments

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Widowed: The perfect husband? The perfect Christmas tree? I started a list of all the things that annoyed me about Jon. But I lost the list.  Read more.

I’m Old. And Here’s What I Like About That

October 21, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 12 Comments

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I’m old. And what I like most about that is — I’m not in the thick of things anymore. I don’t have to be. I’ve got other things to do.  Read more.

We Humans Are Ineffable

September 23, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 6 Comments

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People are a little like God. You know who they are, but that “who” can’t be captured or summed up in words. We humans are ineffable.  Read more.

Grief — Love With No Place to Go

September 16, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 6 Comments

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Grief changes from day to day. For me right now, without my husband alongside me, grief is love with no place to go.  Read more.

Widowed: Where’s My Lead Pony?

September 9, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 8 Comments

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A lead pony is the seasoned horse who escorts a anxious racehorse to the gate, exerting a calming presence. I’m widowed. Where’s my lead pony?  Read more.

Widowed: Yes, It Does Get Easier, Sad to Say

September 2, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 6 Comments

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Does life ever get easier for the widowed? Yes, it does, sad to say. For some, the fading of that intense grief feels like yet another loss.  Read more.

I’m a Widow. Was This Guy Asking Me for a Date?

August 26, 2023 By Barbara Falconer Newhall 12 Comments

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It was just a friendly chat with a stranger out walking his dog. But then I thought, “I’m a widow. Was this guy asking me for a date?”  Read more.

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Barbara Falconer Newhall in purple knit gown wearing Swarovsky fit silver shade earrings. Photo by BF Newhall

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We Humans Are Ineffable

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