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Why Do ‘Those People’ Make Me So Mad? A Philosopher Sheds Some Light. Sheltering at Home Week 20

July 29, 2020 By Barbara Falconer Newhall Leave a Comment

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A Black Lives Matter poster on a telephone pole in my neighborhood — messaging speech. Photo by Barbara Newhall

July  28, 2020. Sheltering at Home Week 20

When we talk to “those people,” do we really want to be heard? Or do we just want to get mad, feel righteous, and force our opinions, our political will, and our desired political and economic outcomes on others — on “those people.”

I don’t feel talked to, I feel argued with when I hear words like “Make America great again” or “the China virus. ” Also, from the opposite end of the political spectrum, when I hear words like  “America is a nation of immigrants.”

I feel somebody is using speech to get their way, by force, by intimidation, by asserting that something is true (or will soon be true) because a lot of people believe it and they are going to make it happen, whether I like it or not.

Messaging Speech — How It Works

University of Chicago philosopher Agnes Callard has a name for this kind of speech. She calls it messaging speech.

In an op ed in the New York Times earlier this month, Callard described messaging speech this way: “in messaging speech, some aim other than truth-seeking is always at play.” Advertising and political rhetoric are obvious examples.

those people and a neighborhood-watch-sign
Knowing the folks in my neighborhood, this neighborhood watch sign is meant to convey a literal message: “Bad guys, we’re watching you.” In some parts of the country, I imagine, it could be intended or perceived as messaging speech directed at a particular group.

On the other hand, “Literal speech,” says Callard, “employs systematically truth-directed methods of persuasion — argument and evidence.” It is exactly what it appears to be — an assertion of a point of view without an accompanying power agenda.

If Enough People Say They Believe It, Is It True?

One way to turn literal speech into messaging speech, she says, is to attach a list of names as in an open letter, as if many people believing something makes it true.

“Messaging exerts some kind of non-rational pressure on its recipient,” she writes. A public apology, for example, is often messaging speech because it can put public pressure on the victim to forgive the perpetrator.

Messaging often surfaces in the midst of a power struggle. In our current, politically-charged public square, a person’s words can be taken as messaging — as a power move that requires a counter power move.

those people and austin-tree-flags
Prayer flags with the outlines of dead trees flying in Austin, Texas, in memory of millions of trees killed by a drought. Message speech or literal speech?

For example, I suspect that those of my readers who are not keen on Donald Trump would perceive his slogan, “Make America great again,” as messaging run amok.

But if they locate themselves in the liberal camp, how do they feel about the phrase, so often heard on CNN and elsewhere, “America is a nation of immigrants”?

It’s a phrase that stops me every time I hear it. First of all, we are not a nation of immigrants. A whole swath of our citizens — Native Americans — did not immigrate here any time recently.

Second, and more to the point, the phrase “America is a nation of immigrants” might look like a simple statement of fact, but it is not. It is actually a political statement aimed at “those people” that advocates for immigrants.

I’m Looking at You, CNN

Nothing wrong with advocating for immigrants. But making a messaging statement in the middle of a newscast and passing it off as factual — literal — speech (CNN, I’m looking at you) gratuitously raises the temperature of the public conversation.

The phrase, “America is a nation of immigrants,” calls for a counter-move from someone worried about illegal immigration, resulting in even more messaging speech.

The upshot is a non-conversation that does not address the real challenges of creating a just and workable immigration policy.

Advice for “Those People” — And “Us” as Well

Callard has advice for our troubled times.

Philosophers have an ideal, she writes, “of never treating our interlocutor as a hostile combatant. But if someone puts forward views that directly contradict your moral sensibilities, how can you avoid hostility? The answer is to take him literally — which is to say, read his words purely as vehicles for the contents of his beliefs.”

Easier said than done. But I’ll give it a try.

More thoughts about the uses of words at “The Two-Year-Old Rhetorician at Our House.”  Also, “The Rhetorician in the White House — Or, How I Learned to Love the Passive Voice.”

Stars and Stripes. In a message to "those people," man hangs the American flag on the front of his house. Photo by Barbara Newhall
I like to fly our American flag on the Fourth of July; I’m a liberal coastal elite, and I want to send the message that this is my flag too. This year, however, I did not ask Jon to put up the flag — for fear it would be interpreted as anti-Black Lives Matter messaging speech. If I had been able to get my hands on a Black Lives Matter sign in time for the holiday, putting that out front along with the flag would have gotten my “message” across nicely.

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