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I’m Barbara Falconer Newhall and I’ve got a serious case of the human condition.
I’ve done it all: career, family, house, garden, and a prize-winning book, "Wrestling with God." The result: I'm a woman of years, lots of them, who can't help seeing things from the funny side.
Tucked away on this website are hundreds of riffs on life. I hope you’ll seek them out – and keep me company as I discover the humor, if not the meaning, in what life throws my way. Learn More
THE LATEST
Widowed: He’s Pushing Up a Daisy
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 4 Comments
I checked in on Jon the other day and I found him right where we’d buried him. He was pushing up a daisy. Just one. Read more.
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Recent Riffs on Life
Sheltering at Home Revisited: The Virus Arrives
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 2 Comments
Sheltering at home revisited: The virus arrives, the shutdowns go into effect, and we find out how much our “mere” acquaintances mean to us. Read more.
Widowed: The One Good Thing About Grief
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 1 Comment
The one good thing about grief is — there’s not a darned thing you can do about it. Someone has died, and that’s that. Read more.
BARBARA’S BOOK
★ Publishers Weekly, starred review
Any seeker of any faith will be blessed to read the words of this fine author and observer. Read more.
An inveterate doubter for most of her adult life, journalist Barbara Falconer Newhall embarks upon a quest to find a way to believe in God in the twenty-first century.
The result is Wrestling with God: Stories of Doubt and Faith, which details her search for the Divine in the lives of diverse Americans – from a fundamentalist Christian to a progressive Muslim to a Buddhist monk.Seekers of all persuasions will feel represented here, from priests, ministers, and rabbis to engineers, physicists, and avowed non-believers . . . a riverflow of a book. — Phil Cousineau, host of PBS’s Global Spirit
DON’T MISS!
What Do You Say When Someone Dies?
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 12 Comments
What do you say when someone dies? How to console a friend? There’s not much you can say do do — except to just be there. Read more.
Shanghai Chic – Where a Woman’s Style Starts With Her Shoes
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 16 Comments
I thought I was traveling to China to explore the mysteries of China’s storied past — the big dynasties with their poetic one-syllable names: Ming, Tang, Han. But what really caught my attention was China’s storied present: The skyscrapers. The ubiquitous one-child families. The traffic jams. The fashionistas . . . Read more.
The Center of the Universe Lives at Our House
By Barbara Falconer Newhall 6 Comments
Children run the world. And everyone who’s ever had a kid knows it. Read more.