In My Rain-Battered Garden — Nothing Is Forever, Not Even Those Poppies

camellia blossom in rain puddle. Photo by Barbara Falconer Newhall

A camellia -- one of the dozens that hit the pavement today.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Jerome, that famously abstemious fourth- and fifth-century scholar and saint, is said to have kept a human skull on his desk to remind him of his mortality.

Those of us with gardens don’t need a skull. We’ve got stuff dying on us every day. [Read more...]

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Tulips, Orchids and More — Florists Put on a Lively Show for the Dead

Yellow tulips sprouting like light from a desk lamp. Photo by Barbara Falconer Newhall

A spray of light from Connie Hubbell Arts.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

It’s not often you get to do something for the dead. But every year around this time, florists in San Francisco’s East Bay are invited to put on a show to benefit the Friends of Mountain View Cemetery, a famous old cemetery at the top of Piedmont Avenue in Oakland.

My favorite floral arrangement was by Heather Dunne and Mari Tischenko of  the Orinda Garden Club – ”Branch of Life,” with scarlet tulips floating above a gnarled branch. [Read more...]

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The Spring Equinox in Our Brilliant, Bursting, Buzzing Front Yard

Wind poppies.

 By Barbara Falconer Newhall

When I think of March, I think of mud. Half frozen, slurpy, messy, car-stuck-in-the-road mud.

A primrose.

That’s because I grew up in Michigan, where March is the most unnerving month of the year. One day it’s warmish and the world smells like spring. The next day the thermometer drops, it’s winter again and odors vanish in the cold. [Read more...]

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Jeff Greenwald’s Merry Band of Storytellers (Including Me) Makes Its Debut

 

Lisa Michelle Galley rehearsed her story at Book Passage. Photos by Barbara Falconer Newhall

At last Friday’s Grotto readings, one writer read from her ”Cheating Dining Room Table” MS on her smart phone.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

It’s happening. Jeff Greenwald’s  storytelling class will be peforming at 6 p.m. Friday, March 23, at the Book Passage bookstore in San Francisco’s fabled Ferry Building at the foot of Market Street. Join us!

We’ll be part of an evening of presentations by about 25 writers who have been taking classes for the past [Read more...]

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A Case of the Human Condition: How Facebook Helped Jana Riess Grieve

A retablo from San Miguel, Mexico. c 2008 Barbara Falconer Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

A very touching story on Patheos by author Jana Riess about how Facebook helped her grieve.

Apparently, FB has a policy of shutting down a FB account if it hears that the owner has died — much to the distress of friends and family members who have grieved together on the deceased person’s FB site.

Your thoughts? Have you had this experience?

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